Since I have stumped everybody.....
I went ahead and purchased the ssl cert....(I assume I have to wait for this to be installed before doing anything else)....also have narrowed it down between oscommerce and Zencart for my shopping cart.
But...now what..?? I actually never have to publish anything from dreamweaver???It's just altering the code in the zen cart files?

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let's say I use Zen cart.....are the following my steps for creating my site?
I have created the way I would like the top and bottom of the pages to look in HTML in dreamweaver
install zen cart from fantisco area
set file permissions(who knows how I'm going to do that)
cut and paste my HTML in place of the headers and footers in the cart
add all my products to the cart
some how change the look and feel of the item's in the catalog(buttons etc..)
set up the basic credit card payment module
then do something else while we rake in the profits from the sales??
please advise (help) and correct my order of things to what it should be..
thank you everybody!!!!