Of course the link should have been www.infotorremolinos.com/sitemap.xml
Anyway, I've updated it now to your version, Mitch, since it's probably more reliable than the version I had. It's also included a pdf file that I only added to my site an hour or so ago. How's that for up to the minute assistance? 

Try right-clicking this and choose "Save As.." and save it to your PC as sitemap.xml.  Then upload that to your web hosting account.  Sitemap creation is a very tricky thing - one more reason why I use a WordPress plugin that does it for me most of the time on my own projects.

Well, I've been trawling around for sites to get links from, but it's not that easy. Those that have offered reciprical links are slow to oblige, despite me having added links to them as requested. I think I've followed all the advice (gratefully received) on preparing my site for Search Engines, and I thought I'd produced a worthwhile site with plenty of content etc. I'm pleased with what I've managed, with a bit of help from my friends here, starting from absolutely zero, but somehow all the hard work now feels a bit anti-climatic. If a simple search for "Torremolinos information" isn't going to bring my page up any higher than the 7th or 8th page of Google hits, what was the point?
Am I being impatient? Is there anything else I should be doing? Is this how everyone started out?
I didn't expect to automatically appear at No.1 and start receiving huge paychecks from Google ads. But it is rather disappointing to finally be able to see the fruit of my labour in all it's glory on my computer screen, and to feel such a sense of achievement, only to realise that the real hard work hasn't even begun yet. 

Some words of encouragement, anyone?

Thanks as always Mitch for the encouragement. Without it I probably would have thrown the towel in and taken up making model airplanes or something ages ago instead.
Google ads paying for my hosting? To be honest, I hadn't even dared hope for that much initially. The hosting probably costs less than I'd spend on model planes, so if you think of it as a hobby, the cost is unimportant really. And that's all I intended it to be originally - just something to do, to learn something new, to create something myself from scratch.
But since it seems to have worked out reasonably well, it would be a shame for it to be stuck away out of sight. If I had made a particularly nice model, I'd probably want to put it on show on the mantelpiece or somewhere.
I realise of course that I could market my site by advertising it through other (non-internet) media, and possibly the cost of that could be offset by selling advertising on my site to local businesses. But the fact remains, unless I can achieve a decent Google position, nobody is going to take me that seriously, are they?
I guess I'll have to keep working on those links? Not much of a hobby now, is it? 

Yes, you should be able to update it, no problem.  I'd suggest plugging your site into here and let them create the updated version for you:

http://www.xml-sitemaps.com

Then download the new one and upload it to your account.  With the hyphened pages and domains for keywords sake personally I think for addresses it is ok, but I wouldn't change your domain for it.  Personally I don't like hyphenated domains for a user's sake because for example, lets say we are having a conversation on the street - I ask for your domain, and it is alot easier to tell me it is torrierealllyrocks.com rather than torrie-really-rocks.com. 

Awesome!   

While doing some freeware reviews, I was reminded of this thread and thought I would pass you along this program:

http://blog.lunarpages.com/2008/02/22/gsitemap-google-sitemap-creator/

Should do a good job at crawling your site and creating the Google Site Map for you.