If you haven't already, you might want to check this thread:
http://www.lunarforums.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4834 because it has all the URL's to search engine pages where you can fill in you site information on order to get crawled.
After you submit your website to the search engines, you can not expect to be listing within the next 2-3 days. It often takes at least a month, but it really depends on the time you submit. For example, if you submit now you should be able to get listed within a week or two because Google and many other engines tend to crawl sites towards the end and beginning of each month.
Try to submit manually to engines and not through those websites that say they will submit your site to 1000s of engines for free. They usually don't work and can get you banned from search engines.
I hope that helps. Let me know if you need any other help/tips.
