
It's working. I thought I would share the settings so other folks could save themselves some time.
1. Be sure to have Lunarpages put you on a server that has FFMPEG.
2. in the .htaccess file be sure to add this:
suPHP_ConfigPath /home/
yourusername/public_html
3. in the php.ini be sure to have:
upload_tmp_dir = "/home/
yourusername/tmp"
[ffmpeg]
extension=ffmpeg.so
4. And be sure to set the ffmpeg dir to:
/usr/local/bin/ffmpeg
Also, you have to have PHP 5 is enabled.
That should work. Hope this helps someone.
Just and FYI. Lunarpages did figure out what I needed and though it took a little while their support was responsive.