Thanks for trying to help, Stephan. I'm not really having any problems as a user. I'm just trying to accomodate other people.
The websites on which I work focus on music and musicians. People come to listen, so sound is assumed. Some bands want an entire song... or worse, a mega-meg video... posted for play on demand.

That's a download disaster via http; and without a high speed connection, even the small files clip.
SO, what I really want is for everybody in the world to have a high speed connection.... (ha!)
But then there's reality. Hence my hoping/wondering about the feasibility of a streaming server here at Lunarpages. But if it's not in their game plan right now, that's ok too. I don't want the streamer as much as I want my host of choice.
And again I will be delighted if you have any suggestions.