...sometimes trying things is a great way to learn....
True, but so is learning from the experience of others. I just didn't want to give the wrong impression, leaving you to be unpleasantly surprised if this process turned out to be something that you later discovered you
really hadn't wanted.

It's been a learning experience for us, and we've been quite pleased with the results. But this is a decision that each would need to make on his own, and is not, in my opinion, something that should be casually implemented. It seemed only proper to provide a thorough presentation of the issues.
My apologies for any unintentional offense.
Eliz.