Let me start off by saying, I am not a lawyer!
(just to make sure everybody else knows) 
So some of what I mention might be up for debate. This is just my understanding of things.
Legal-wise, I don't think there is one single rule, law or legal document that says, "X party would be the party to blame".
In most issues where there are are questionable content concerns, usually legal authorities will contact the three major parties involved in this order:
- The Web Host
- The Web Site Owner
- The User Posting the Offending Content
You could say it is the user who posts the offending content's fault, however - as the web site owner, if you do not remove said content, then you too could be held as an accomplice to the act.
So the web host is in the clear - right? Not always the case. There was a recent news story that got out there that a web host was ordered to pay for contributing to trademark infringement, because
they were hosting the sites that had the offending content.
As far as jurisdiction, I would say it would depend on where the web host is hosting the content from.
Now finding somebody libel for slander is another gray area situation. In most cases, you have to show defamation. To break it down even more, basically you have to give example or proof that:
- the statement was false
- prove the statement was told to others (getting into the "if a tree falls in the woods" area there)
- the statement harmed you in some way
That's the way I see it at least, with what I have seen going on out there in the world and the research I have done into this topic. Let me take another moment to say,
I am not a lawyer,
and this is in no way, shape or form legal advice - just an opinion.
